I think
love is the synchronized feelings of two people. Whenever someone you love is
sad, it makes you sad, as with other feeling. You have made such a bond with
that person that your mood is almost identical at all times that you and the
person you love are together. Whenever I see that my parents or siblings are
recovering from a sickness, it makes me happy to see that they are better.
There may be exceptions from this theory but I’m no Nostradamus. To me, love can be shown just by enjoying a
person’s company or just doing enjoyable things together. I've only known my step-mom Michele, for around 4 years but our bond is just as strong as the bond
I have with my dad who’s known me for 14 years 9 months and 11 days (EST.). This was because almost every day during the
summer, we run errands, make jokes and discuss thing that are on our mind. Even
this isn't the most efficient way to get to know each other, we still bonded.
My other theory is that our minds seem to relate the people whom which we have
done enjoyable things with the feeling of enjoyment and basically says, “Hey, I
had fun last time I was with them. Maybe I could enjoy being with them again!”
Once again I’m not a psychologist ,but I
feel this theory is somewhere in the ballpark of how bonding works.
I agree with what you say about how bonding works.
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