Love is like a lost object..

       Love, if not understood, could be a big misconception. Some fall to easy only to get their heart broken, but only because their interpretation of love was not the same as the person’s they were loving. I believe that there is, in fact, one person for everyone. Relationships come and when they go, some are left heart broken. The hardest part of dreaming about someone you love is waking up to see that the person is gone. It takes a second for the intentional sparks of the “hello” to build but forever to say goodbye. Moving on is easy, but what you leave behind is what makes love such a complicated occurrence. When people fall in love and then fall out, you think you will miss that person. In some ways this is true but most of all it is the memories that you will miss. It is apart of your lifetime that you don’t want to through away. “Love is patient, love is kind.” Love will not come with the blink of one’s eye but will overtime. You will think you love someone but once the initial feelings set aside, you will realize that it’s no more. Some might think that all this is unfair but I think it’s only to help us realize what true love actually is. When true love does arrive and you find the one that was meant for you, love is kind. Love is essential for everyday life. That special someone keeps you going, motivated. As you age, you come to the realization that is not about the quantity of friends but the quality of them. These people are the people that you truly love. Someone who really loves you will see what a mess you can be, how moody you can get, how hard you can be to handle, and will notice the flaws that make up who you are but still would want you in their life. Someday, that someone will walk into your life and make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else previous to them. “Love is like a lost object. If you search too hard… you will never find it. But if you just forget about it momentarily, it will show up in the most unexpected way.”